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Saturday, April 9, 2011

good planning

sebagai hamba abdi yang saya menurut perintah a.k.a prp..so mana ada orang kesah sapa nak kawin kena wat extended or weekend ke apekah..so, ended up this weekend i have to work on saturday from 5 to 12 am and mr dimple has to work on sunday from 8 am to 2pm..so kena la pandai use up any spare time yang ada..so today started searching for our house's utilities and some other important stuff than tgk jam got extra time so went to hunt for our sepatu..and rempit back to kuala pilah coz i gotta start work at 5!!lakeli mr dimple terrorist in rempit-ing!huh!

all in all...with all the requirements and research and work stuff, i have not felt any kind of nervousness yet even though its less than 3 weeks away..hahahaha!

okay, back to work and all the best to me and any brides to be out there!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

long journey.

last friday after work, zaem, sayangku aini and me headed to kelantan!!weehhooo!!

the last time i went back to kelantan was more than 10 years ago.

after many pit stops we departed from gombak at around 10.30 pm. our main tujuan was to attend nini's wedding.

so reached kota bharu at 8 am on saturday, got ourself ready and off we went to rantau panjang.th ewedding lasted the whole day and by the time everything was settled (zaem was the official photographer), it was 6-ish.

then, we went to visit zaem's aunty and grandmom. buruk gila perangai kalau datang jauh2 tak go and see them.

after maghrib prayers and lepaking for a while off we went to zaem's uncle's boutique to rent our baju for the kelantan's side.

i was basically too tired to think of the color that was nice and the color of the pelamin or the color of the hantaran or how the hantaran would like..hahaha!!so..i allowed zaem's aunty to decide the best!but we decided the color and the basic details eventually.

so, checklist as of till today:

baju both side: done
pelamin his side: done
hantaran both side:done
mak andam:found and booked!yeay!thanks mama!
veil:one done, one pending
stuff for house:pending

and the cards!!!...aiyoooo..!!must start posting 'em by next week at least..was supposed to send them this week..but i left the cards in zaem's card and that mr dimple is too busy..pity him...so next week it is..

1 month 1 week 6 days to go...im praying hard that everything will go smoothly..ameeenn...

Friday, March 4, 2011

time and jealousy

today we have planned to send by hand some of the cards..i might be kinda early but next week on the 12th ill be in kelantan for nini's wedding and some other wedding related stuff to settle.

on the 19th, zaem wouldnt be around coz he'll be back in kelantan yet again for hazim's wedding.

on the 26th or on the 1st of april i need to go back to kedah to settle few more unsettled stuffs..

then, in mid april ill be starting my clinicals..(read:busy, case clerking 24-7)..thus, this week and on the 26th seems like the only weekends im free..

we cant possibly finish sending all the cards by today, cant we..?

i cant remember the last time we went for a real date, watching movies and stuff..since both of us are working..weekends are the only time we can settle our wedding details..and weekends are too short!!*sighs*

with Allah's will, i hope everything runs smoothly..

Friday, February 25, 2011

miss busywoman.

berhabuk teramat sgt this blog..very tak terurus..forgive ur royal highness of no country for being such a busywoman. all the free time that i have is either being used to do assiggnments, presentations, night calls or preparing for our wedding.YES~~u read it right..the prince and princess of nowhere land are getting hitched.ive even added a wedding ticker and yes..2 months 4 days to go..

some asked..."weyh..ko senyap2 je ek..tetibe nk kawin.." OR "weyh min!!bila ko tunang!!!"

the answer is no..we decided that we would not get engage.my dad even asked me if i wanted to have an engagement ceremony.i told him.."min nak selesaikan yang wajib saja.."...and so i decided to tak bertunang for the reasons below:

A)its an adat and it isnt a MUST to engage for me to get married.
B) tunang is actually an agreement between two persons.if the couple has agreed to get married, that is also considered as tunang.the ceremony that we Malaysians have are just part of the culture. a mean to announce that their child has been booked.dont believe what i just said??then watch this:you tube ustaz azhar idrus on tunang.
C)i would rather save the few thousands that is spent on the engagement ceremony for the wedding or post wedding needs. (ie, our house, our utility bills, our needs and wants..heee)

and both parents agreed that it is not necessary so we started with all the preparations around 4 months back.

and i did not announce it earlier because i felt that it is too early.lots of things could and might happen. and i am too busy to think bout bloogging.so since we have received our wedding cards today, i felt that it is a suitable time to blog about it.=)

most of the stuff are done.

  • cards: done
  • dresses: sent to tailor
  • doorgifts:done
  • hantaran: booked
  • venue: booked
  • VIP's door gifts: done
  • henna: my aunty bought it from Mecca. (love u aunty!!)
  • HIV test: done
  • borang nikah: done
some of the things that are still pending are:

  • shoes
  • veil
  • flower bouquet
  • hand bouquet
and some post wedding stuffs...but so far our weekend are filled with preparation stuff.hence the lack of time to blog.mr dimple even commented.."what happened to ur blog..dulu bukan main..tak sempat nk baca dh update yang lain..now??"..huhu pls forgive me,yours truly the busywoman.

i hope and pray that all the preparation will run smoothly and InsyaAllah ill update with the latest preparations as much as i can.

pray for me yeah..=)

and psst: ur prince and princess of nowhere land are getting hitched on the same day as Prince William and Kate Middleton.woot2!

Friday, September 17, 2010

3 and a half week.

pejam celik,pejam celik its almost a month that ive start working..will start working in IPD in a week's time.was attched to methadone clinic today.60 patient with 60 different attitudes.1 patient who is just a step away to being another success in the program.he's trying his best to control the urge himself.another sighs because its been 3 years and he is still in the program but yearns so much to be successful too.another looked uncoordinated to not even bother if he fails or gets to the finishing line.the worst part is 90% of the patient are malay male.

with them i was taught to be friendly but strict.unlike the patients in OPD where u can be friendly and helpful..here they are able to make a fool out of you if you are not careful.tersilap langkah mmg padah la jawabnya..tersilap cakap they will mengamok..patience2...

on another note,all the PPF are on holiday so the PRP are left on their own.tired is an understatement.but its all worth it when the patient look happy and could still make jokes with you.its all worth it when the patient enquires about the drug and u try ur best to help them and counsel them.well,its also worth it when i receive the paycheck too but that's a long way from here for now.

will have to head to the hospital this sunday.nope, not for extended hours or weekend oncall but to help the staff to cook for jamuan raya which is on monday.we are also assigned to decorate our department's booth.creativity please come to me in my dreams tonite..

till then,have a happy and blessed syawal peeps!!

Friday, September 3, 2010

one and half week.

reported for duty on the 25th of august.tot of asking for a day off so that i could settle off with house hunting but my wish was not granted.so,after lunch i started work in hosp tuanku ampuan najihah (htan), kuala pilah.the first half day was aint bad because we had a counselling session where the seniors taought us how to counsel on novopen and MDI.

work was fine but the house hunting was bad. the first house that i shared with my housemate, a lab technician from the same hospital was so creepy that it lokked like a ghost house from the outside.no,im not kidding you.so, my parents went for house hunting while i went to work.they found me a flat with 3 rooms which only cost me rm320.kinda cheap considering a smaler house in shah alam would cost us rm600.

im attached in opd until the end of the month.first task was labelling.manually.then it was filling.luckily the opd wasnt so big and it took us a day or two to get used to where the meds are.so this week was changed to screening and dispensing.

all these tasks seems hard at first.mistakes made are abundance.being tegur here and there.but the seniors and frp are always there to guide you.my opd boss would always say "its better to ask a hundred times when u are uncertain about something rather than making mistakes and jeopardizing the patient's life"...the first time i started dispensing the senior prp was there to guide me in case there are points that i forgot to state.after a few times u get used to it and u r on ur own.htan is a secondary hospital so the peak hours are around 9 till noon.in the evening is when we are taught to do different tasks or there are presentations by the senior prps..

owh yes and got to handle DD too..nervousness when recording in the log book.more nervous when 500 tablets of lorazepam went mysteriously missing.had to stay back till 5.40 just to figure out where did the tablets got to..found out that someone did some mistakes during the check and found recording in the log book.at the end of the day, we found the 500 missing tablets.hehehe.fuhh!

all in all, the first and half week was very tiring but i definitely gained a lot from it.to those who will be starting soon, practise standing for at least 2 hours without sitting and maybe u would be less tired than i am.hehe.

Thursday, August 19, 2010

gardener needed

just finished helping my dad maw the law. ive only helped him maw the lawn twice during this 2 months break but those two times is enuff to let me know that mowing the lawn is not an easy thing to do.

i helped him today is because ill be leaving to negeri sembilan soon and with his knee giving him problems i tot i would spare him the effort to give the lawn a trim for the next 3 weeks or so..

but, the fact is i think what he really need now is a gardener.just to maw the lawn.he is able to water the plants..owh and maybe help my dad trim the plants every month.

we used to have a gardener when the house was rented a few years back but when we moved in my parents did all the gardening.(yes, they have green hands)..but now that they are getting aches all over i think its best to get the help again isnt it..?

misteri-mencari-gardener is on!!

till then..take care all!